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The one who came back.
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The one whocame back.

How Gitty went from crisis to cash-flow positive, and why she now sits on the other side of the table.

Gitty · Jersey City

Mentor Mom

Gitty
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Gitty

Where she was

She was a single mother, and the ground had gone out from under her. Rent, groceries, the children's needs, and no partner to split any of it with. The kind of month where every envelope is a small emergency.

She found Collective Kindness in the summer of 2024. Not through a campaign. Through the way most women find us: someone who knew someone said, call them.

What we did

The first thing was not a budget. It was getting the immediate crisis off the table. In July 2024 Collective Kindness put $5,500 toward her most urgent bills, paid directly, so the pressure came down enough to think. In December a small interest-free loan covered a gap that would otherwise have gone on a card.

Then the real work. A case manager who checked in every week. A budgeter who built the monthly plan with her, line by line, until it held. Help finding housing she could actually afford, which for a single mother is usually the decision that decides everything else.

We did not pay off her debt for her. We did not manage her money for her. We sat next to her while she did it.

Where she is

Her file closed with two words: cash flow positive. Her income covers her life, with room to spare. More than the number, there is the change she describes in the film: from bracing for the next bill to planning for the next year.

Now she leads

This is the part that turned her story into a program. When we asked what she wanted to do with what she had learned, she said she wanted to help the next woman. Today she is the model for what Project Nurture calls a Mentor Mom: a graduate who sits at the table on evening one, so the newest mother in the room sees someone who made it through.

That is the whole idea. Twenty women, one year, and then the women we serve become the women who serve.

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